Loss of Libido

Loss of libido (sex drive) is a common problem that can affect men and women of any age. It’s normal for many people, especially women, to lose a bit of interest in sex as they get older, mainly because of diminishing levels of sex hormones or age-related health problems. But an unexpected loss of libido can indicate an underlying personal, medical or lifestyle problem, and can be upsetting to both partners in a relationship.

Causes

As is the case with women, lack of desire in men can be of either physical or psychological origin.

Physical causes

• Alcoholism: quite common
• Abuse of drugs such as cocaine
• Obesity: quite common; slimming down will often help
• Anaemia: unusual, unless the man has been bleeding for any reason
• Hyperprolactinaemia: a rare disorder where the pituitary gland produces too much of the hormone prolactin
• Prescribed drugs: particularly Proscar (finasteride), a tablet used for prostate problems
• Low testosterone level: contrary to what many people think, this is rare, except in cases where some injury or illness has affected the testicles
• Any major disease such as diabetes

Psychological causes

• Depression: very common
• Stress and overwork
• Hang-ups from childhood
• Latent homosexuality
• Serious relationship problems with your partner